That is, to show my wife that I am a better.option, to show her how desirable she is to me, to make her feel loved and appreciated.
I just don't see that tactic working at all. That's what you should have done before she became a WAS, but it doesn't work on a WAS. Nearly every OM is a step down from the LBS. The biggest selling point of the OM is they are NOT the LBS. No matter what the LBS does, they will always be the LBS when compared to the OM. There's just no winning that contest. So the LBS has to remove themselves from the equation. Leave the WAS to their affair and cut them loose.
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Then she messaged,me after I went to work that she had arranged for her mom to pickup D3 from day care and keeo her for the night and she was off to OMs.
She contacted you about her plans with OM? [shakes head] Honestly it just blows my mind that you can be walked on like this over and over again and not do anything about it. The first time that happened my wife would have come home to changed locks and reset garage doors. I understand you want to save your M, but good grief man, have a little respect for yourself!!
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She has also expresses doubts about OM to her best friend
You've been saying ^^^THAT^^^ practically since day one. It's that same old "maybe she'll come out of it" attitude that you've been engaged in for months. Remember what I said about you having a whole campsite set up in front of the cheeseless tunnel while you wait for someone to deliver the cheese? You're still there, and they're STILL not going to bring the cheese. It's time for you to saddle up and ride down another tunnel.
