How do some of you get past all the blame the WAW puts on you for everything that has gone wrong with your M? I know i have done a lot of things that have caused her pain, but it just seems like every time our R comes up, she justifys the D by saying she hasnt been happy from the beginning. Her mind changes every day about what i have done to cause this and i just cant get my mind to comprehend this.
Sounds crazy and irrational, doesn't it? Do you know who else sounds crazy and irrational? The schizophrenic homeless people on the streets of big cities who shout random things and talk to people who aren't there.
Do you let THEM bother you?
What if your wife told you the sky was green? Would it bother you knowing the sky is really blue?
Just ignore people you disagree with...especially the crazy and irrational ones. That stuff doesn't affect you anymore. Got it?
Go make yourself a sandwich...go walk the dog. Disengage.
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.
