Originally Posted By: whatisis
"When you quit trying to be perfect, you'll settle for being really good." LIKE!


And it really works in the context of addictions because that pain we feel when we can't be perfect is easily doused by our "drug" of choice.

Learning to be OK with those disturbing feelings can mean freedom.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss