WAW_SC,

I have been following your posts closely and although i am still new here, your sitch follows mine pretty closely.

I have already been asking myself some of the same questions you have asked yourself about when are we truly ready to give up this battle.

My D will be final in a month and a half and i have already questioned whether or not i should keep fighting for the woman i love or if i should wait until the D is final and start dating other women myself.

It might help to ask yourself a couple of questions and make sure they are coming from your heart and not your mind.

Do you still love her?
Do you still see some hope?
Are you truly ready to start dating someone else again or is it because you are lonely?

I have asked myself these same questions and you are the only one who can answer them honestly.

I wish you the best.


Me: 41 W: 36
M:9 yrs
Together: 12 yrs
Kids S7 S4
BD: 01/13
W filed 5/13
D final 8/13