One more thought. I know, and fully understand the logic, that even if she does break off the obsession with tat-boy and make a good faith effort on it, that the fact that I brought this up, and handled it the way I did, could ultimately push her into a deeper obsession, either with this tat-boy, or with door #2 down the road. This really worries me and I don't know what to do about that other than try to refocus on being the husband no wife would want to leave. But knowing that I might have made it worse is tough to move on from. But, move on I must!
CB
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"
