Hi P4L

I am still reading your thread and as always it's a pleasure to see how well you are doing in times like this. I wish I had your strength!

I do not think I can help you new knowledge about the convo-question since it is my guess you already know the most and the question almost seem rhetorical, but:
- Convos start when somebody says something that interest somebody else (Remember that!)
- Use open question that demands a longer question.
- Topic has to be interesting

If you go for a long convo then,
- Mind the surroundings (Cozy, nice etc.)
- Mind the time (Is anybody tired, going somewhere, want to do other stuff than talk etc.)
- Mind anything that can disturb the convo (Children, cooking, TV etc.)

Just thoughts but remember convos start when somebody says something that interest somebody else!
If you are like me this is the hard part at the moment! What we find interesting is not the same as W. smile


Me:44 W:43
D7, D5 (S11 from other R)

T: 8y - not M
ILYB: 8. Mar 2013
W moved: 1. Aug 2013
LRT: 20. Aug 2013
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