WRT the mail...When you are ready, I wonder if it is worth considering asking him to change his address. The communication involved with him picking up the mail seems to weigh heavily on you. Although of course everything is still very fresh so I can only imagine that any communication whatsoever could weigh heavily anyway.
just a thought.
(((((((((Tori)))))))))
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
