Good Old England

[Big Bruce]

Hello,

If I took 6 months to go to Canada, it was because I was waiting for my papers. But I did say I wanted to delay going because I wanted to spend the summer on the beach, which I remember she took very bad. Instead of being happy for me..

Anyway, while on different countries, she had her VISA card, which she used freely. The problem is, she claimed she didn't have access to the money because I was such a stingy man, but when I printed all the bank statements with her withdrawals and my L put it in the file, she stopped that claim. What was she thinking?

But you have a good point, my wanting to be with my son must look like another trick, or a revenge on her, since apparently I wasn't interested in him before. Truth is, I really love my S and want to be with him. The mission therefore, is to break her unbelief that I can actually care for S. But how to accomplish that?

Also, nothing is set for end of June. Avoiding going to court again is precisely what I'm trying to achieve.
But W does not respond to my question : "I want 50-50 with little Bruce, how do you think we can manage? Do you need a mediator involved? How can I help?"
Is she trying to see of I'm really intent or bluffing?
Is she waiting for the 18 June to serve me the divorce papers?


What do I do next?
Seriously, do I file first for pre- trial? Should I not budge?
Should I insist that my demand is not for fake and we're gonna waste some more money if she refuses to respond?

Frankly I don't know what to do. I'm taken aback and very disappointed that I can't even talk normally, like 99% of normal couples. Honestly, she exaggerating..