Wow, hot wheel you are speaking the truth. It is absolutely all about saving face from her point of view. I do not believe for one second that she is 100 percent sure that she is making the right decision. And my reasoning for that is just like I said in the above posts about still playing Facebook, profile picture, puppy games. But the number one reason is.....she would tell me all the time that she does not want contact when I was. Initiating the contact. Now that I am not initiating and she is periodically, when I respond.....she always responds back with.......please no contact anymore. And then threatens me with whatever she is in the mood to threaten me with that day. She blocked me from calling and texting so our only communication is through email. But guess what........you guessed it, she still hasn't blocked me from email. If she was so set. On her decision and was happy moving on with her life, she would have blocked me from EVERYTHING. In her life and she sure the hello would not be playing her passive aggressive games using social media and friends in hopes I am listening, watching or better yet to validate her decision, reacting aggressively!


Me 33
W 32
Married 10/13/12
WAW Started sleeping in spare room 1/13/13
Divorce filed 2/13/13
Seperated 3/1/13 till ?????????
Divorced 5/28/13