Trust me brother, I understand. And it is tough, but you can do this. But I promise you that if you continue to pressure her, or talk about your R and/or a future right now, you will drive her away and further toward divorce.
That she is still going on dates with you is a good thing...she is still interested. She just isnt interested in the M and the pressure of a future ATM. If you care about a future with your W...then you are going to have to square yourself with that, and accept that what you have ATM is what she is able to give.
Me-45,W-36 M-12 yrs, T-15 years SS- 16 Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since EA/PA OM 2003-2004 Reconciled 2004 May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches W files D June 2013 I am moving out 26 July 2013
