i think your comments are right on point. about your h needing them to make him feel better about self. it's an ego trip- saving people.
it's nice to be nice and have compassion. i don't pretend to be able to knwo what is in your h's heart & mind. you're in a much superior position for that. you're one calm customer- saying lets meet her.
idk dawn- don't think i could do it. nice that your h professes his love for you -
i think it's some kind of crossed boundary as well - his r with her. it's a bit too "personal" - much better to hand out gruel at a soup kitchen and keep it "professional" if you've gjust got to go out and save someone. i agree totally with you.
i like tht your h says it's about him- not you or anyting "wrong" about you. it's kind at least -
i'd take it - to hear anything not bad news. as it is - i guess i'm grateful at moment for absence of picking and fighting- i'd do a backflip if i ever actually heard anything good. oh well huh??
xxoo i'm outta here- so didja say you agree your h has a mask on now? or has had one on for 22 years? i'm not sure here what i have - old or new mask?
