I don't know if I said it or not or if it even matters but they have been together a year and a half. I had a hysterectomy last year and he was never there for me at all and now I know why. He was spending all his time with her. Also she is still living at home with her alcoholic husband who abuses her "all the time and doesn't deserve her" I know he has been telling her everything that goes on in our lives and with our kids. Our daughter is bi-polar and is suffering so much and I am so afraid for the state she is in now. He needs to see the damage he is causing to his kids. I am just rambling now and sound like him just going on and on. Going to go do something just to try and focus on something besides this misery. I am sorry guys to just keep going on and on.
