Thank you labug

I will add that this is not what the kids want either.
I will not ask about last night...
I do somewhat feel like I should say that he has made his choice and he should leave us alone for a while.
I don't want to be withholding time with the children. But, H sees them at his convenience... H has had no conversation with boys. He sends daily text to D. Makes him feel better, I think. D loves her dad unconditionally. She is so sweet and good as gold.
I want to take the higher road. Praying!!


M48 H50
M21 T26
S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old
PA confirmed 7/2012
H separates 9/2012
H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY
OW still in picture. h filed 10/13