Originally Posted By: Limbowife
He gets to get in his car and drive away to his happy skank junkie perfect life and I am here to deal with everything and try to reason with my kids about an unreasonable situation. It hurts so bad and just keeps hurting more. I am so very tired.... Thanks for listening..


I feel so badly for you LimboWife, and cannot get your sitch off my mind. I know this is hard, but please think about what you said here for a minute. From what I've read, MLCers have their EAs and PAs because they want to escape the reality of their life at home. Your H left you and drove off into the sunset with a junkie with 2 babies because he could not face "real life" with you. But what could be real-er than living with a junkie and 2 babies still in diapers? Maybe he is living some fantasy right now about saving her, but I truly believe that even if he IS having a "happy skank junkie perfect life" right now, it won't last long.
Hang in there! Linda M