I think the best any of us can do is, as P4L said, have no expectations. Don't think that holding your hand means what it once did.
Use this time to really define who you want to be, not so much as a wife and mother but just you, the rest will fall into place.
There is nothing you can do or say or not do or say that will make him OK with this. He has to come to that on his own. He might, he might not but you will still have you. The new and improved you, who knows her worth.
Take care.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
