OK, but as I have been mentioning, the business is now financially doing well, and H has no problem with me taking out my $$ at this very time. One of the reasons my name is not on the business, is that it was originally his business for more than 20 years. He incorporated it ages ago. Approx. 7 years ago, I joined in. It is possible now that I could ask to have my name placed on the business. Would this help?

On the R side of things, when h does reach out (very little) how should I be responding. I know that it has to be his decision to come back. Is going dim and distancing further working? Not responding to his every text? is all this good?

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)