Hey MizJ,

Shucks, thank you for thinking of me. I hope you are enjoying your free day to the fullest!

Thank you for the quote. Ahhh, conflicting advice. Just enough to confuse someone already spinning smile The one thing that I did notice, was that she speaks about "visits" and "the next visit" and unfortunately for me, there is no "next visit" without someone breaking the NC. We are too far apart. I am not ready to come out of the dark just yet - if ever - so I am content to wait a bit longer.

Back to basic DBing - Do what works!!

Strong people still hurt, MizJ. I hear you. We'll never be the same after this experience, that is for sure.

Hang in there, my friend. Maybe the H will win again and treat you with the proceeds. smile