Taking My Space - Giving Spouse Theirs

[RealityTrip]

I'm up. I'm at 'em. Had coffee and planning my day. I think I feel like another day of me. I have a lot I'd like to get done around the house and I want to start the work week off right tomorrow so I'm going do another me day.

My W's BF texted last Fri.and asked if she and a friend (that i don't know) could come down and stay at the house starting next Mon. for a coastal R&R getaway. We have been friends for 13 years and she has been my W's BF for 15. Since the BF found out about my W's A, she has been very supportive of me and does not condone my W's actions. It has placed a huge stress on their R. I felt awkward with the request only because I don't want to alienate my W any further. But put on the spot, I accepted and told her she could come down. Then while my W and I were talking last Fri. I told her about the request and how I felt awkward and wasn't sure what to do but had already accepted.

My W told me that her BF had already asked her earlier that week if my W would be here and could they stay with us?... and my W forgot to tell me. My W said she told BF that she would be at her brother's but was fine with it if BF wanted to ask me... which is good since I already accepted.

I'm feeling a little weird about it even still. I love my friend but I recognize that my W's relationship with her being strained is one of the consequences of my W's affair that she is having to deal with.

I guess I'm worried that my W's words don't reflect her true feelings on the visit.