Thank you very much, SD and Tori, for your encouragement. I will come to visit you soon.

It occurred to me that I'm not 100% that H went to Debtors Anonymous on Sat. He reddened slightly when I asked him about it. He says he's going to the gym at some point today and I'm really not sure if that's true. I've decided though that I don't want to think about what he'd doing and not doing. If he wants to lie to impress me, he can do it because I just don't want to waste energy trying to figure it out nor do I want to back him into a corner where he has to admit he's lying. I'm just going to get on with my life as best I can. He is like an overgrown child. Maybe we all are in some ways...

Off to see a friend for coffee now. smile

Me: 51
H: 52
T: 23 yrs
M: 19 yrs
S18, D16, S14 (special needs)
PA: 2003/2004
Piecing: 2004 on
Suspect H had EA: 8/2012-12/2012