Trying to stay in it, keeps getting harder. #3

[Papa4Life]

Hi In_it. Sounds like you caught some WAH "blowback", as the CIA calls it. Your H was affectionate and you took that as a small sign that maybe he was receptive to some mild physical touching, but then he pushed you away again. That had to be upsetting for you.

I guess you've gotten another lesson in why we're supposed to have no expectations at all. But can you think of what the conditions were that led your H to hold your hand? Were you extra nice to him? Did you have a nice convo beforehand? Were you watching a romantic movie? Maybe trying to recreate the conditions will lead him to repeat his actions.

It must be so tough going through this while pregnant. Come to think of it, it's hard to imagine how your H can be so distant right now. I know that when my W was pregnant, I couldn't keep my hands off her, lol! She was adorable when she was pregnant, that cute round tummy was irresistable. That's probably how we ended up with four kids, LOL!!