My world got turned upside down

[RosaLinda]

Limbo, remember in your first post you said that you feel as if you H is an actor, reading a script in the MLC book?

Well all the nasty things he said to you are part of the script, not real. I know how how much they hurt. We all do, because all of us on this board have had that script read to us. 

My DB coach says the MLCer is confused and afraid. He compared the MLCer's brain to some who was white water rafting, and fell out of the raft. It is useless to try to have a rational conversation with them, because they are just trying to keep from drowning. 

I know how your brain is reeling and how you feel as if you were punched in the stomach. I know that you probably feel like vomiting. 

It will be hard, but try not take it personally. Try to detach from the situation. You need to protect yourself financially and legally. Talk to a lawyer to learn your rights concerning your house. Take care of your health -- eat, sleep, get a bit of exercise. 

And I would advise you to read Sandi2's 37 Rules. They will help you to deal with your H, and not make things worse between you. 

God bless you.