Your xh is aspecial one in a class all by himself. although i do think my sh's recent behaviour is getting there. After having invited himself to the family party for my eldest son's bday, and being told (by his sons) that he wasn't welcome, he then invited us all to a meal in a restaurant he was having for his brother and OW2 (me included)
I have never met the woman, nor she me,and i do wonder how she felt about the invitation. But as my eldest son said that anyone that can hang out with his father for very long must be strange.
He also proposed that he and I meet up again while we are both in the same part of the world (normally we all live dispersed, but he and I are coincidentally in the same city for about 10 days.)
I thanked him for the offer and declined. He really isn't someone i want to spend time with any longer. I also suggested, nicely, that he might want to think about apologising to his kids, if he really wants to get back into their lives.
I then get a reply: "I have absolutely no idea what you are talking about" THEN he sets up a barrage of emails to his kids apologising for anything and everything except what he actually did. It goes in, and gets made into peanut butter
