think H is with OW right now. I was at my bookclub. Gave H opportunity to be home with kids. He said he was "working" Doesn't call to check on kids. he is supposed to come over tomorrow for lunch. so close to sending a text...Kids expect him to come over.
thanks wbw, you're right, we have no control over their actions. I am learning to accept that too. Which is why it is difficult for me to find a resolution to this mounting list of 'H gripes'. Because he's going to do whatever he wants to do. But I feel they need to be given the opportunity to make corrections. Then, when/if they choose not to, we're back in control with how to react with that information.
