I don,t think she is having an affair but she wants me to think she is maybe.If she really was I think that would be a deal breaker for me.She simply cannot afford it.Thats what bothers me the fact that she wants so bad to get away from me she is willing to give up house and live in a dumpy apartment.I can't believe I was that bad to her that she wants to get away that bad,I think you are right about me helping her to win her back.I don't think she would do the same for me.Biggest thing she has happen last few years she can't seem to keep a job.She has a personality that rubs people the wrong way and she doesn't take criticism well.She says main reason she is done with me is because I would not do things with her any more.That is true I did stop wanting to do things with her.She said she has been thinking about D for several years.I did not think it was that bad.Now I wish I would have done things differently but we can't go back.I just feel like we should leave all the bad things in the past and start a new relationship with each other.Maybe she has found someone else she gets attached to people very quickly.The other that is bothering me is the way she is treating our 16 year old son.She is being very cold towards him.He even mentioned it.I really appreciate the replies I get.It helps to have other people here my story.
