Wendylon! I thought you weren't coming back. I've also been super busy, so I'm not reading or posting that much... So sorry about the financial mess, though. I am impressed with the way you have handled things. You're such a treasure. Your H is doing the best he can do with the information that he has now. Choose to see him as an innocent child who does not know better, but also make sure you take care of the finances. Love to you!