Limbowife...DO NOT, I repeat...DO NOT listen to anything your H is saying. It is a form of emotional abuse, and him laying his guilt off on you! I know you are in pain, shock, and disbelief...but you need to lawyer up ASAP! You need to protect yourself, and not allow your H to just walk away from his responsibilities.
Listen to NLW and the others. These W's have either been or are going through the same exact thing. You did an admirable job as a W, and deserve to not be discarded so easily. And while you may not keep your H, he needs to feel the consequences of his behavior...meaning supporting you through Alimony.
Me-45,W-36 M-12 yrs, T-15 years SS- 16 Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since EA/PA OM 2003-2004 Reconciled 2004 May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches W files D June 2013 I am moving out 26 July 2013
