Couldn't agree more. My 3 rules before I start dating anyone again:
1. I need to ready
2. 100% W and I aren't going to try and work things out
3. They can't ride horses!


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it