Just catching up on your sitch and sounds like you're doing well. Keep doing what you're doing.
Pick up any new hobbies or GAL stuff? I was just challenged to find some completely new things to try...so I'll be jumping from an airplane soon. Trying to find some other stuff.
I also like that Chapman quote.
Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are
Thanks Spartan. I have jut continued to be involved in my church and spending a lot more quality time with son. I've always wanted to skydive and I'm going to check that out. That sounds awesome! What a rush W and I have talked more this week then probably the past 6 months. No R talk, just texting back and forth and really getting along. She is actually sharing a lot more of her life now. I'm pretty sure she is still talkin to OM and I believe she is going to see him him next weekend. It definitely bothers me as we seem to be getting along so much better, but its her journey to decide. I have met someone who lives in my apartment complex and I really like her, but I am keeping that at a distance because I won't move forward until I know W and I aren't going to work on things. I don't want to cloud things up anymore. But this girl is definitely someone I could see myself dating. I've decided that at some point I will ask W to decide whether we are movin forward or not. I honestly am ok if she says no. I just feel like I am in a really good place emotionally right now. I'm just trying to be patient and won't ask that for a while. We shall see
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
Thanks Spartan. I have jut continued to be involved in my church and spending a lot more quality time with son. I've always wanted to skydive and I'm going to check that out. That sounds awesome! What a rush W and I have talked more this week then probably the past 6 months. No R talk, just texting back and forth and really getting along. She is actually sharing a lot more of her life now. I'm pretty sure she is still talkin to OM and I believe she is going to see him him next weekend. It definitely bothers me as we seem to be getting along so much better, but its her journey to decide. I have met someone who lives in my apartment complex and I really like her, but I am keeping that at a distance because I won't move forward until I know W and I aren't going to work on things. I don't want to cloud things up anymore. But this girl is definitely someone I could see myself dating. I've decided that at some point I will ask W to decide whether we are movin forward or not. I honestly am ok if she says no. I just feel like I am in a really good place emotionally right now. I'm just trying to be patient and won't ask that for a while. We shall see
Hey CBT.
Glad to hear you are doing well.
Keep that logic up front and emotions in check, esp if you have a new friend.
Remember you come first and when you think your good, ready, healthy... Well give it some more time
Take care.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
Couldn't agree more. My 3 rules before I start dating anyone again: 1. I need to ready 2. 100% W and I aren't going to try and work things out 3. They can't ride horses!
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
W informed today that she is calling MC tomorrow to make an appointment for her to go see her individually. We spent a lot of time together over the weekend. Took son to a movie yesterday together. No R talk. We are laughing, talking and just plain getting along. Today was sons first day of summer program at his school and she wanted us to take him together. It was a nice suggestion and thought is was good for son. I still don't know if she is planning on leaving Thursday or not to see OM and I haven't asked. It will be interesting. Either way I've got fun plan for son and I so it will be a great weekend
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
yvw cbt... I haven't posted to you much, cuz u seem to have it under control... have you read my sitch lately? not much going on... just worky stuff.. would love your input on my latest tho.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
