Thanks Spartan. I have jut continued to be involved in my church and spending a lot more quality time with son. I've always wanted to skydive and I'm going to check that out. That sounds awesome! What a rush W and I have talked more this week then probably the past 6 months. No R talk, just texting back and forth and really getting along. She is actually sharing a lot more of her life now. I'm pretty sure she is still talkin to OM and I believe she is going to see him him next weekend. It definitely bothers me as we seem to be getting along so much better, but its her journey to decide. I have met someone who lives in my apartment complex and I really like her, but I am keeping that at a distance because I won't move forward until I know W and I aren't going to work on things. I don't want to cloud things up anymore. But this girl is definitely someone I could see myself dating. I've decided that at some point I will ask W to decide whether we are movin forward or not. I honestly am ok if she says no. I just feel like I am in a really good place emotionally right now. I'm just trying to be patient and won't ask that for a while. We shall see
Hey CBT.
Glad to hear you are doing well.
Keep that logic up front and emotions in check, esp if you have a new friend.
Remember you come first and when you think your good, ready, healthy... Well give it some more time
Take care.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy