Thanks Spartan. I have jut continued to be involved in my church and spending a lot more quality time with son. I've always wanted to skydive and I'm going to check that out. That sounds awesome! What a rush
W and I have talked more this week then probably the past 6 months. No R talk, just texting back and forth and really getting along. She is actually sharing a lot more of her life now. I'm pretty sure she is still talkin to OM and I believe she is going to see him him next weekend. It definitely bothers me as we seem to be getting along so much better, but its her journey to decide.
I have met someone who lives in my apartment complex and I really like her, but I am keeping that at a distance because I won't move forward until I know W and I aren't going to work on things. I don't want to cloud things up anymore.
But this girl is definitely someone I could see myself dating.
I've decided that at some point I will ask W to decide whether we are movin forward or not. I honestly am ok if she says no. I just feel like I am in a really good place emotionally right now. I'm just trying to be patient and won't ask that for a while. We shall see


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it