This is a great discussion. I have read that, while
of abuse and drug addiction/alcoholism in a M.

My BIL advised me not long ago to stop trying to R with my W and to "move on" with my life because it's in the "best interests" of our kids.

I calmly asked him to explain to me how looking a 9 year old and an 11 year old kid (not to mention their twin 4 year old sisters in the eye and telling them that mommy and daddy don't love each other anymore is really in their "best interests".

You're right, society makes it far too easy for people to get. D.


M41 W42
M 12 T 15
S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2
BD 1/2/2013
Living as roommates
Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13