Well MzJay, I read thru your threads, and have to say how much I admire you for your strength and fortitude in dealing with your H all these years. At least most of the rest of us have the carrot before us that just MAYBE our H or W will go back to his pre-DB personality. But what do you have to look forward to? Some affection and sex? (well sex IS something to look forward to ) You are truly a woman who believes in the sancity of her vows, and I so look up to you for standing all these years, since way before the bomb.
Geez, your H's mind is truly amazin'. The squish game!? Threatening your S over a sandwich!? It must really s*ck to be a woman!? All women are illogical!? Not even asking his OW what is wrong with her when she tells him she cannot breathe or see, maybe she was having a stroke or heart attack for heavens sake!? And then actually SHOWING YOU their text conversation!? That totally flabbergasts me. And the worst in my mind -- saying "if our marriage is over...." in front of your son and then wondering why he could not see the "positive" in that!?
Congratulations on losing two pounds, on your new step grand daughter (it is SO sad that they are estranged from your H), on having such wonderful kids despite their dad's influence all these years, and on being a super wonderful employee (nice to be appreciated somewhere in your life, right?). Have you signed up for school this fall? I think this is a great GAL idea.
You are one terrific woman. Someday your H will appreciate that. Maybe after you've had enough....
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17
) You are truly a woman who believes in the sancity of her vows, and I so look up to you for standing all these years, since way before the bomb.
