PM - That's brutal having to sign the birthday card and D papers on th same day. Sorry you had to do that, but I guess it is what she wants so Happy Birthday??? ;-)
She's having a really tough time too, but I just can't help her right now.
Originally Posted By: Tryin2figuritout
Picked up my kids and we're on vacation while the Mrs is on her first business trip since going back to work in October. This will be a rough week for her because this will be the longest she's been without the kids EVER. I'm glad this is happening not so she is in pain but so the reality of her decision to walk sets in on all fronts. When I got them yesterday and we left her house, she had to run inside and I could hear her lose it. Reminds me of a fortune cookie I saw once "Happiness is not about what you want but what you have."
sandi2 is correct: the WAW needs to experience what she is losing. I waited way too long (>1 yr) before I started DB'ing, and that likely contributed to where my R is now. Just be sure that you don't force it out of spite or pettiness. Respect what she is asking for and let the consequences of her decisions occur.
Thanks for your comments. I wish you all the best.
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.
