Hey TG! I have been off the boards for a year.....been facing my sitch and doing the work I needed. I do remember all the kind advice you shared with me, and how your last ex was so much like my W is in her MLC.
I just read this entire thread and I found your words (and other people's too) to be so profound. I love how you got to the place where you knew deep in your soul what your boundariesd are, how you will live in any R, and how to make peace internally with your ex.
I am so glad for you that you found a place to share your newfound wisdom with a new partner. That is so uplifting.
You have come through the black belt school of personal transformation and so many will benefit from knowing your story.
