I'm kind of zonked today. Friday night in my church small group the topic was relationship. We discussed what works in relationships and what doesn't. It brought up for me my past "failures", one of which being so recent. Then last night the Pastor got me blubbering with stories of his personal disease to please, which I so identify with, and how it wrecked his marriage. Then I'm over at a friends place afterwards shedding tears. Enough already! Today, I'm gonna chill, do some chores, pick up my kids and put the brain on hold. I've emoted enough for one weekend...it's exhausting! Btw Clay, there are some books out there that might be helpful. One is "The Disease To Please" by Harriet B Braiker and the other, "No More Mr. Nice Guy" (harder to find though unless you order used).
