It got easier when I really internalized that statement about "Don't believe anything they say", and that means having the expectation that any agreement they make could be broken and anything they tell you at any point could be a lie. ...
I still wouldn't trust her for a second and that expectation does help to handle it when they do disappoint.
This is such a great point. I never even once thought about it this way. This is a very good insight.
M41 W42 M 12 T 15 S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2 BD 1/2/2013 Living as roommates Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13
