I asked a similar question on this board a long time ago, it got little traffic but it's a good question.

Honesty with themselves and others, allowing them age appropriate control of their lives, respecting boundaries, their own and those of others.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss