You're right - society does allow this insanity, especially in my state. There is not one D on my side of the family, but on H's side everyone has been D, so apparently it's no big deal. He has yet to make the connection between part of his childhood trauma and his parent's D. Like you, I have two teenage boys. They have been badly hurt due to H's actions. His thought is 50% of marriages end in D and the kids are fine. Apparently he hasn't talked to any of the kids and he certainly won't listen to his own. The way they feel is my fault, according to him. How delusional.
Divorce reform is needed. The courts make it too easy to walk away. There should be mandatory counseling when kids are involved. I understand some states do require this. I wonder how many families are being saved.
