Thanks AnotherStander.... Despite how it may of sounded I ment "old pair of shoes" in a positive way.. Sort of like "the grass isn't always greener on the other side", sometimes it's ends up being artificial grass!!
I have been working on myself... and feel quite happy with how I've done. Must addmitt though, thinking of getting a new hair style!!
I will look for that story in my DR book!
M:47 H:46 T:8.5yrs SD:19 May/2012 ?? H having EA Dec/2010 H distant Jan/10/2013 Confirms PA with OW for 1 month March/24/2013 OW still in the pic M:Moved out May 4th