If your W was having an A, would that be a deal breaker for you?

August is a long way away. Keep working on yourself.

She said she was going to move out, why has she not?

I certainly understand how you came to the decision to keep the cars the way they are and help her with payment and her response could have been predicted. Is her thought true? Probably not, although for your own self check, are you sure you are not trying to help her out to win her back?

How long do you feel your M was on the rocks?

Before your W dropped the bomb, can you think of anything that happened in her life or any changes that you now notice she was doing, prior to BD?