Originally Posted By: lostforever


The feeling/Thought is as of today I have not told anyone where I am going to stay. All I have said is that i do not have a place to go yet.just hard to find a place that will take a dog. But I feel like i do not want anyone to know my location. I even feel like changing my phone number. this way everyone will say where did I go? maybe make her think more.

Maybe. But think more about what you need to do first.


Is that stupid or what?

Nope. I get the reasoning behind it.


I just do not want to loss the contact i do have with my stepdaughter. she even calls me her stepdad. She has come a long way and she has been relying on me for someone to talk to to help help her everything.

This is a good thing. The SD needs some stability in her life.


But i still want to or feel like just making it look like i dropped off the face of the earth.

I get the reasoning. I just wouldn't do it. There are people who do need to get in touch. Too much hassle letting everyone know.

Don't get a new phone to to start calling or texting your W, either. Very pushy and sneaky to me.


I will be staying at my dads for a while and it is on the other side of the river.

Would that be Vestal? Just curious...


meaning a place she would not even look and away from her for me not to run in to her as often. But I am looking to buy a house now and it will be in the area of where she was is whatever. i like this area a lot and the houses are priced nice..

Buy a place that works for you. That suits your needs and wants.



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