"Affair busting is best when the two partners are pushed closer together and all the needs must be met by each other."
Your H depends on you as a friend and confidant, but does not reciprocate. I know you worry about him being full-time with OW1, but maybe that's just what the doctor ordered...
Of course that means you have to be fully prepared for him to be with her.
Can you do it?
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."