Hi TVS! I have read through your threads (except for the missing one, that is strange!) and really admire how well you've kept it together. You are a strong and courageous woman. 

I was riveted by your conversation with your H's Slut, your former friend. What an evil loser sicko that woman is! A married woman whose husband has cancer screwing around with her friend's husband. How low can you get???

I hope that if your H's golf outing next month does turn out to be a tryst, that it will be the end for them, and his eyes will finally be open to That Woman's character. That's what my H's Tramp calls me, That Woman, and it always makes me laugh. 

It is amazing that our H's are so similar with their chronic illnesses. It doesn't make it any easier. Maybe your H would like my H's recipe for fermented oatmeal? smile Also, neither ever moved out, and they both seemed to be back, or almost back, to his old self, and then fell back into the God forsaken hole of replay. I wonder how common that is, and what causes them to bolt back?

Keep up the good work my friend! Keep that sexy on!


Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17