Hey Wendylon nice to here from you.....but oh good grief you really have been put through it these last few weeks.
You sound like you have handled everything perfectly. Kept calm, been pro-active in sorting out the problems and resisted the temptation to call H every name under the sun (which would probably have been justified). Certainly don't know that I could have reacted so well.
H sounds like he is in an awful place and he is a very lucky man that you are supporting him. With everything else in your life you truly are an amazing woman. I am sure he will realise this one day.
So glad that you are okay and lovely to hear from you. Make sure to take care of you in all this madness you deserve some pampering.