Originally Posted By: foreveryoung

They have to find themselves, learn to love themselves. I'm convinced that if we work on being our best selves, and are able to wait long enough, they will come back to us. But sometimes they sure can make the waiting awfully difficult, can't they?


I believe this too FY. When my H temporarily came out of his trance for a few months, he was my same old beloved H again, so I know he's still in there somewhere. I have no expectations ( smile ) that it will happen this month or even this year, but I am convinced that if I keep working on becoming a better person, follow the DB techniques and hold on long enough, he will retun to me. 

But yes, it is SO hard. Linda M