Yes wfm that is my other option. It is very difficult to continue to DB again. There is a depressive pattern going on here. I can go dim as I can be with 2 young kids living under same roof and sleeping in same bed.
I know my options. Above as stated. Detaching and I'm working hard on that.
Today I am taking the kids all day. Movies, pizza , arcade...
Next week I will do alanon and open mic and maybe cards
If my wife starts to go out with rings off again acting like a highschool cheerleader that might be my boundary .
Honestly my comments might MIGHT have been a little passive aggressive but nothing to cause a w to check out of marriage again .
