Awesome advice, thank you very much. I will definitely drop the rope. Truth be told it is getting easier and easier to detach because we have less things that we have to speak to each other about for the divorce case. At this point everything is separated. I live separately and we are just waiting for the courts to push the papers through. I have signed and so has she. Now I guess my only hope is that by applying the LRT and detaching that she gets a change of heart before the paperwork is finalized and either drop the D or even just change it to a legal separation which will be a step in the right direction to meeting my goals. So I am going to "drop the rope" , keep applying the LRT and only respond if she initiates in a kind, friendly, no expectation way. Hopefully she will soon realize the grass isn't always greener!! I want her to be happy whether it is with me or by herself! So we shall see. I will keep all posted! And thank you all for the insight again!
Does anyone know how long it actually takes for the D to be finalized once the papers are signed off by both parties in NYS?
Me 33 W 32 Married 10/13/12 WAW Started sleeping in spare room 1/13/13 Divorce filed 2/13/13 Seperated 3/1/13 till ????????? Divorced 5/28/13
