I read that the reason a lot of MLC never R is because the stander moves on. That a lot of MLCers do reach the point of wanting to return but its too late. There are no stats on this but it gives me hope in my darkest hours.
It also gives me some control over my sitch, the fact that it is only truly over when I decide its not healthy to stand anymore.
^^^Agreed. In our sitch I've been convinced for some time now that I'm more likely to end this M than she is.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
