Crazy little thing called MLC

[reachingHigher]

Raine, this has got to be so, so hurtful for you. I'm so sorry you have to go through this, especially now in the wonderful afterglow of just having had a new baby!

You are still remarkable. Still holding true to yourself. In the most trying of circumstances.

My H also dumped many, many things on me that I did wrong through the years. It was interesting to see him continue to complain about things as if they were in the present even though the thing he was complaining about hadn't happened for say, two years.

The person in MLC is walking to a different time clock. The only thing I can figure is that some of these irritating things we do as spouses, trigger something deep inside them that is unresolved and they have to overreact and make these poor decisions to try to fix this broken thing way inside.

And how long are we willing to hang around with having our hearts trampled on?

I think so highly of you, Raine.
Always know your friends here understand a lot of what you are going through and are sending bundles and bundles of love your way!

Hugs,
rH