I really think that we can make it, Girl

[reachingHigher]

FY,

When they give us the dead hug, or pull away from us, that means we MUST back off. No pressure.

I found this very funny. So few people outside of our sitches here could understand this.

I just wanted to tell you how much I appreciate your sense of humor. It is fun to read these oh-so-serious things mixed with humor. Makes it easier to read!

I really hope your W starts appreciating a little physical contact. It sounds like a lot of the other ways she is connecting with you are really good.

I liked that you shared about her taking the pic of the cherries and posting it on FB. I'm convinced after watching my H's activities on FB that it is some kind of major validation for some people in depression (counting the "likes"). Helps them to have some cheering section or something. And it's their new life. That's why we can't be a part of it. (thinking of CB's sitch)

So...we've got out own cheering section here on this forum. But here we get actual help, advice and a way to vent.

Thanks for all your contributions and I always appreciate it when you visit my thread (I can't divulge how short the dress was or high the heels...but I'm thinking it was a winning combo from the look on H's face )